As you all know, this site has taken a decided turn toward sexual topics. Thus is was no surprise when I recieved the
following email this week:
I'm really afraid of the way that my vulva looks. It scares me. I always wonder if the size and shape of things matter.
What if I'm trimmed and a guy like shaved girls. What if I'm trimmed and some guy thinks I'm a slut cause of it? Am
I supposed to look like a picture from a text book, because I don't. I'm really afraid of letting someone downthere because
of that. I'm also really afraid about the size of my lips.
This time, I tought I'd bring out the big guns, and ask a male friend of mine. His words, "tell her that as long
as she's really clean and isn't completely bushy down there, it doesn't matter." This is the same advice I would have
given, but sometimes it helps to hear it strait from a man. Also, check out the poll to the right-- it's asking guys their
personal opinions on the matter.
To the Left is a 'textbook' picture of a vulva. Don't be alarmed if you don't look exactly like this. Ask your doctor if you
honestly think something is wrong.
GIVING HEAD TO A GUY:
I get WAY TO MANY questions about this. All guys are a little different, that's just a given. be sure and pay attention
while you are pleasing your man to the noises and movements he makes. If a guy starts slowly bucking his hips, or pushing
your head further down in a rythem, you're probably doing something right. If you're like me, and a little blunt, you can
just ask him how he likes it.
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